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lovehurts  

Adopt My Family For Christmas

My name is Lisa Urango,I am a mother of 2 boys and 3 girls and a 3yr old grandson.I'm hoping that even though is Christmas Eve,that it's not too late for someone to kindly adopt my family for Christmas.Its been a really hard year since being laid off work 7 months ago.Any kind of help would greatly be appreciated just to see my kids have a good Christmas.Thank you kindly
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Anonymous  

A Christmas Wish For My Son

Hello My name is Diane. I am new to This because I have never needed any help until this year. You see my Husband lost his job, than he found another one,but he just started and our rent is do, so when he gets paid we only have enough to pay are rent and want have any money left for Christmas. WE have a 9 Year old son that has a heart of gold if you could believe that, but he is going to be sad this year because there is not going to be any gifts under the tree this year. I can't stand for any child to do without Christmas. I love to see the look on there faces when they open gifts on Christmas Eve, and then they open a gift on Christmas Morning from Santa. Anyway I don't like asking for help because I am the one who useually is trying to help someone else, but if you can find it in your heart to help me out this year for my son, I would really be greatfull.
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Single Momma  

My son deserves to be part of the conversation

I am a single mother who lives check to check. And I am sure there are other single mothers that are in more needed help then I am, but I just need to share my story. I have more bills then I do income and I do struggle to get a meal out for us. I pray with desperation and God always makes a way for me. I am thankful. I have a 13 year old son who deserves everything under the sun because he is the best child a parent can ask for. The last 2 years he has not gotten any gifts because I just cant afford it. As I go in the bedroom each year and cry to myself of guilt, my wonderful son doesn't complain or show me any sadness. But there has been times where conversations come up that his peers discuss what they did or what they got for Christmas. And it breaks my heart that he has no comment. I just want my son to be part of the conversation this Christmas...
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senskeang  

Help my family

HOW CAN MY FAMILY GET HELP THIS

CHRISTMAS?

My name is Angela Senske.

I have a full time job but barely

make enough to pay the bills, I

had to take out my first payday

loan and still dont have enought

to pay rent, get food on the

table, pay the bills or even get a

Christmas tree. My husband has

been un-employeed since April and

has been to several interviews yet

nothing promised job wise to him

yet. I have two beautiful

daughters ages two and four. My

heart aches at the want and desire

to provide my children 'the good

life', at least a Christmas this

year would bless our hearts. I am

doing all I can as a Mother, wife,

mother and employer to try to make

ends meet, yet with all I do,

things just seem to never be quit

enough, I am emotionally stressed,

I am reaching out to whoever will

hear me or advise me as to how

make it in the economy, to give my

daughters a chance to perhaps join

ballet and make some friends, or

attend pre-school or daycare. I

have tried to get help from

welfare, work hardship assistance,

yet I have been denied. My rent is

$1000 for a two bedroom I make

$700 biweekly and my husband gets

$200 a wk for un-employment which

is about to end. We were recently

in a car accident and took care of

the insurance to fix the damage

and repairs and seeking medical

care for the injuries through

chiropractic care. I have rent due

on the 1st its now the 5th and I

took a payday loan out, only

recieved $400 for that... I am

still $600 short of rent the place

we call home, a roof over my kids

heads... Christmas is quickly

approaching us and I don't know if

we will have a place to live. I

need some HELP, I am a good

person, I love my girls more than

words could define, they deserve a

happy life! Can anyone help us?

Please?



Angela Senske
senskeang@gmail.com
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e_g_johnson  

Christmas wish for my son's first christmas

I am a single mother of a seven month old little boy name Elijah. He is my whole world. I try to provide for him the best that I can. I have to provide him with food, diapers, clothes, a warm place to stay and all the basic necessities. Recently I have lost my job due to me having to be out of work because my son has been sick three times with bronchitis and ear infections. He has also had other colds, and he currently has to take breathing treatments on a daily basis and take zyrtec every night for his allergies. I have been searching for another job but I have not had any luck as of yet, so I do not have any money this holiday season. The only wish I have for this christmas is to provide my son with some christmas gifts since it is his first christmas. I want to get him some new clothes and a pair of shoes and a toy or two. I am trying to find some assistance to help me with this christmas wish that I have so that I can give my son some presents for christmas and so he can have the things that he needs. If anyone would like to help please contact me. Thanks to everyone who takes the time to read this post.

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lovemykids1  

About lovemykids1

I am a widow with 4 children. The last five years have been nothing but trials and tribulations. I lost everything I ever worked for but most of all is the loss of mu husband of 25 years. He died one year ago. The whole year we were homeless living from motel to motel and sometimes in the car. We would go for days without baths or food. I have been everywhere for help but have not been able to get any. My children look malnourished. I was able to get a place to live in after months of tryng but now we live with no water or electric. I am so grateful to God for allowing us to have a place to lay our head. I cannot afford the deposit for the electric which is I will be able to work again soon when I can leave my kids in the house with utilities. PLease can someone let us know if there is any help out there for people like us. We look normal but do not live like normal people.My christmas wish is that we would be able to have showers, flush the toilet and cook. Please any information out there would help.

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nervous79  

Single Mom with a toddler & newborn

            My Christmas wish is that my two children, ages 3 and 11 days (as of dec 15th), have a better life than I do. I was married early this year and in August my husband decided he loved someone else more and moved out. This while I was already expecting our second child.  Then in November he loses his job and now in trouble with the law.  My salary just covers daycare, electric and food nevermind rent or car payment, gas, water or anything else.  Now I am on maternity leave which is half pay and have to leave my house by March 1st.  I've tried to get my children the health insurance through the state and they say it takes two months and I'll have to pay any medical bills and have them reimbursed by medicare if they get it.  I've also called for rental assistance (Section 8) and was told that they aren't accepting any new applications.  So I have no money, soon to have no house and my kids are on a two month wait for health insurance. 

          I wanted my kids not have to worry about money and not live pay check to paycheck but it seems as if they will be in worse shape than I was as a kid. My parents dealt with money issues and unemployment and I never wanted my kids to know about that but it seems as if they are set to deal with it also. In addition they are not going to have two parents who love and support each other or even live in the same town.  It's amazing how you think your life is going great until it all falls apart around you.

 

Update: 12.19.08

Well it gets better... called the car dealership to ask about trade in and was told that if i traded it in I owe 10600 that I dont have. Also, my name is on my husband's car also so now when they repo both cars not only do i have no car to get to work in to make any money but now my credit will be crap. And credit is the only thing I have left...

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Cadbury   in reply to SysBot   on

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Have you contacted your local salvation army, toys for tots or church? Almost evry town provides some aid for Children in need on Christmas

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shalynn19   in reply to SysBot   on

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i ama single mom of a 5 yr old son and i also take care of my 7 yr old sister. about 4 months ago i was put out of work due to a severe injury that occured. so i am facing back surgery in jan. i had savings for christmas but ue to my injury i have had to use it for bills. i am wondering if anyone can help me give these 2 lovely children a christmas this year. please let me know  if i cant get help they wont have anything come christmas morning.

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babyt  

About babyt

hi im crystal from grandview and i need help with christmas for my two little ones i have a 5 year old boy who is autism  and a 6 year old daughter who is adhd and i had to pay my bills and can't get them any thing for christmas all though i give them my love and joy i  feel like it aint enough if you can help me i would be so thankful.

 

 

 

                                                                           812-461-8494  this is my mom's cell phone her name is carolyn

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Connie0706   in reply to Banjo69   on

My family is in need

I am in the same situation as you Amy and do wish you the best. All I can say is keep your head up and I will keep you in my prayers.

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Connie0706  

About Connie0706

This has been a rough year for our entire country I know that. My family has been impacted so severely that we can barely keep our utilities paid, and the rent is past due now. My husband and I have been married for 7 years and together as a combined family have 5 beautiful children. He is an electricians helper and I have been in customer service management for years. We have never really been able to do a big Christmas due to having 5 children and all the responsibilities that kind of family load carries. We try really hard to make up for it through the year by getting them involved in extra-curricular activities, but this year it has been even harder. My husband volunteers as a youth soccer coach on average 30 hours a week and even though the broke his back in September and has not been able to work has still attempted through the pain to keep his commitment to not only our children but the children in the community as well. I lost my job a month ago after 2 years at local car dealership and now we can't make ends meet. Like I said our children have never had that magical Christmas that I have dreamed for them. My oldest is 15 and I am afraid that he may never have that experience. As it stands at this point there will be NO Christmas in our house this year and that thought breaks my heart. If there is anyone out there who would be willing to help or knows how I can get some help please contact me. Also if there is anyone who knows of ANY job openings in the Brunswick County NC area please contact me. Our family works hard to take care of each other but right now we seem to be falling short on the financial end. Thanks.

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Banjo69  

My family is in need

I live in Georgia and like so many others the economy hit our family hard. I attend school trying to make a better life for my family and 2 weeks ago my husband was layed off. He is applying for unemployment benifits however I think that will be just enough to live on. I have an appointment to recieve food stamps in a couple of days and that will be a blessing. The only help I am looking for is a few gift to give my husband and son and daughter. I know that they would be fine without recieving anything but my love for them is so great that I would like to brighten their christmas. I know this is a tough time for all of us so anything would be great. Thank you for your time and help!!!

Amy T.

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savannah2   in reply to SysBot   on

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 in response to JEWLIEE...   

just email me! i can help go to my page and get my email address

 

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staradmire  

Christmas help needed for 2 boys

We had been adopted by someone for thanksgiving and christmas, no one ever showed with a thanksgiving dinner for us. So we didnt have one this year. They didnt show for thanksgiving, I doubt they will for christmas.

My husband had to get surgery on his foot, was suppose to be off work for a month. He developed a blood clot in his leg the day after surgery, and was in severe pain, until the right doctor could diganose what was wrong. They put him in the hospital for a few days. It is still there, with the blood thinner he is on and his job, the doctor wants to keep him off work for an additional 2 weeks. This takes us past christmas.
Monday they did a cat scan on him because he started having these migraine headaches, they thought he might be bleeding in the brain. Now he is on medicine for those, the cat scan came out clear, thank goodness.
He gets 60% of his pay for sick leave, but out of that we have to pay $150 every 2 weeks for our health insurance. His check for 2 weeks was $137.00. We are not going to have enough money to pay our bills, buy groceries, gas for the car, car insurance, car payment, let alone pay for all the medicine he is on.

My sons will have nothing this year for christmas. They are teenagers, 14 and 16, but would still like something to open this year. I feel terrible, they understand the best they can, but still depressed knowing they will have nothing. They dont ask for much, in fact have asked for little things this year, knowing we would have been able to get them something with the one check he would have received right before christmas, but with him off for 2 more weeks, it means there will be nothing. Any offer that anyone could give to help us through this rough time, would be greatly appreciated.
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Shadowb  

Christmas wish for my beatiful children

 I have been married to a wonderful over 11 years. We have 4 wonderful children and one more on the way.  I have been the only one working to seport my family for the past 6 months, it has been very hard for my family we have to wach what we buy how fare we go on the car, pretty much everything & every time our kids ask for something we have to say no because mom and dad can not buy it for them right now, so we say letter, but kids don't forgett anything they keep reminding us that "it's letter now".

My Christmas wish will be for my children to be able to go to Disneyland. Because for the past 4 years my children have been asking us to take them to Disneyland for few day's, they said that "they want for their dreams to come true like they show on TV". My husband and I promise to our kids every year that this year we will take them and ever year we break our promise,I don't want to this any more because I am teaching my children to lie and I am not being a good roll modle to them. So  few month ago I told my children that we are going to save money to go to Disneyland and so fare we saved around $100.00 and we need a lot more. So please help me make my childrens dream come true this will make my children soo very happy that I can't even explain. I love my children very much and I do everything for them. If any way posible for you all to help make this come true for my children we will be very pleased. Thank you all very much and my God Bless us all.

  702-367-6330 work email shadowtwain@live.com

Thank you very much.

                                                                        Shadow Browning.

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Shadowb  

Christmas wish for my beatiful children

Hi my name is Shogik ( Shadow ) Browning. I have been married to a wonderful man named David over 11 years. We have 4 wonderful children and one more on the way. My husband lost his job 6 months ago and I have been the only one working to seport my family, it has been very hard for my family we have to wach what we buy how fare we go on  the car pretty much everything & every time our kids ask for something we have to say no because mom and dadd can not buy it for them right now we say letter, but kidss don't forgett anything they keep reminding us that it's letter now.

My Christmas wish will be for my children be able to go to Disneyland. Because for the past 4 years my children have been asking us to take them to Disneyland for few day's, they said that "they want for their dreams to come true like they show on TV". My husband and I promiss to our kids every year that this year we will take them and ever year we break our promiss,I don't want to this any more because I am teaching my children to lie and I am not being a good roll modle to them. So  few month ago I told my children that we are going to save money to go to Disneyland and so fare we saved around $100.00 and we need a lot more. So please help me make my childrens dream come true this will make my children soo very happy that I can't even explain. I love my children very much and I do everything for them. If any way posible for you all to help make this come true for my children we will be very pleased. Thank you all very much and my God Bless us all.

My contact number is 702-333-0762 Home / 702-367-6330 work email shadowtwain@live.com

4255 W. Viking Rd. #254 LV, NV 89103 is our address

Thank you very much.

                                                                        Shadow Browning.

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Blessed79  

About lost79

Hello my name is Gayle,I am a 31 year old house wife I have been married to my wonderful husband Joe for almost 12 years

I take care of my mom due to a stoke back in 2000 and in may of last year she was diagnosed with diabetes when she almost fell in to a diabetic coma sad

I cant work because I have IBS which in turn caused me to become agoraphobic (which is a fear of leaving my house) I have had this problem since I was 16 and was unable to finish school,I even had to have my wedding in my front yard.

I love to help people whether it is through donations (which am not able to do as much as I would like) or helping them find ways to make money online or just as a friend to chat with.

 

I am getting a paypal Christmas found together so I can do Christmas for my family this year (since I have not been able to do any for the past 2 years)and thought if I could just get some people to donate $1 or $2 maybe I could do a good Christmas..so here I am asking that if any of my friends on here could help out I would greatly appreciate it God Bless you all 

 


also in closing I would like to say I am doing odd's and ends on line to make a little extra money as well,and am looking for active referrals so I can make a little more if you are willing or know someone who would be willing to help in this area that would be great

thank you and God Bless you all

Gayle 

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nikkiluvmatt  

About nikkiluvmatt

Hello

My name is Nikki I would never think of doing something like this. But my husband and I are surronded by bills and needs at least $500 so we can make our baby's first christmas so much fun and get him what he really needs. Please help us aand if you can you can e-mail me at nikkiluvmatt@yahoo.com

 Thank You so Much

The Sloan Family

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LISAMOM22  

About LISAMOM22

My name is Lisa Shelby.  I am a mother of 2 young boys and a 5 year old girl.  I have had a really hard year and will not be able to provied my children with a Christmas this year.  It is really hard because I have three wonderful children, and my oldest two children will be making Christmas crafts in school  to put on the Christmas tree  ( that we do not have) my daughter tells me what she wants for Christmas and all I can say is we will see. It is not a hard choice I can pay for the bills and food or I can pay for gifts.  I love my children so much and that is why I have to do what is right for them and pay the bills.  I have sat down with my children and I have told them that Christmas is not about what you get from santa but about giving and about being with the people you love most.  I hop they understand.  I am not a greedy person nor and I trying to spoil my children I just want to give them a few gifts on Christmas.  If anyone could help with anything it will be greatly apprecaited.  Thank you all and God Bless.  Lisa

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